Final Exit, Unanswered Questions, and Our Solid Principle

I recently read the book Final Exit, by Derek Humphrey, and I was as impressed as anybody who has read it. Unless you read it, you can’t know the real meaning of what I’m saying. In my view, the author is a remarkable person in several ways and a hero (using American culture labeling).


However, for some unknown reason (to me, at least), there are no deep or even decent justifications about why the book should be used as a guide for self-deliverance methods only for terminally ill people or those experiencing unbearable suffering.


Of course, the author repeats ad nauseam that those people are the target public for the book, but he rarely explains why he advocates for that. Yet there are only a couple of lines where he talks about current knowledge about human mind, and a number of moments where he cites the laws to justify the restrictions. None of them touches the core questions raised about possible reasons for why only the terminally ill or those under extreme suffering have the right to be assisted in their voluntary end of life process.


That makes us wonder “why”? I did some research about that only to the extent enough to challenge our core point in this website: any competent adult has the right to be assisted in their end-of-life process, regardless of their health condition (see our statement on the “Your Story, Your Terms” page for details).


So far, I haven’t found any real or robust challenge to our core principle. Or, at least, none that can’t be argued against. I won’t bother you with details, but I assure you it’s not very hard to find both sides of the argument, if you want to go a little deeper in that discussion.


In short, our core principle is still solid.



Starting Imperfectly

Believe it or not, I’m a human.

In this era with a number of AI bots present in so many areas for our lives sometimes it’s hard to believe that something we read (or even watch) is made by actual humans. So, just in case, let me reassure you I’m not an AI avatar.

Having said that, the real reason I’m telling you I’m a human is because I expect you to understand that, like in any journey in life, this one will have its share of mistakes, misdirection, misunderstandings, contradictions, withdrawals and regrets.

On the other hand, I hope it will be full of learning from mistakes, realignments, deep understandings, consistency, advancements and reassurances.

I started this journey a couple of weeks ago and, even at this early stage, I already feel I’m not the same I was when I started.

So, if in the future you see me saying or doing differently than I said or did before, please don’t be too fast in judging me. Ask me, question me. I might have an answer to that or perhaps I’m not completely aware that the change happened! In the best scenario, the answer will already be in this journal.